Hey everyone, how are you?
Ready to dive into Episode 2 of this introvert life story? Then let’s begin.
You know, introverts often take what others say quite seriously — even the simplest suggestions or everyday tasks. We don’t just hear things and forget them; we carry them in our minds and try to follow them exactly. In today’s story, I want to share how I personally do that — how deeply I take things to heart, how carefully I follow instructions, and how sincerely I try to do what’s been asked of me.
This episode might feel a little funny too — but that’s part of the charm. It’s light, but it’s real.
A Thought About Introverts
Before I share a few real situations from my life, let me talk about something I’ve noticed—something that might help you understand how introverts like me usually think and behave.
From what I’ve seen, many introverts take even the smallest responsibilities very seriously. If you ask them to do something—even something simple—they’ll likely do it with full dedication. Not casually. Not halfway. They give it their complete attention and follow through with care.
It’s not about showing off or trying to be perfect. It’s just how many introverts are wired. Once something is said to us, it stays in our mind, and we carry the weight of that task until it’s done—properly.
Now, if you look at how extroverts behave in similar situations, it’s a bit different. Not wrong—just different.
Most extroverts I’ve observed are usually busy with several things at once. Their energy is more outward, more engaged with the world around them. Because of this, they often forget smaller tasks or may not give as much importance to things that seem minor. That’s not a bad thing—it’s just a difference in personality style.
And no, I’m not saying all introverts are like this or all extroverts are not. Everyone is unique. I’m simply sharing what I’ve noticed over time, through personal experience.
So please—don’t judge me just yet. I’m not saying I’m better or different. I’m just telling you how it feels to live inside a mind that takes everything a little more seriously than most.
A Simple Wedding Scene, But Not for Me
There was a time when my mother insisted that I attend a relative’s wedding. I didn’t want to go. As usual, I preferred staying home, staying in my own space. But since she strongly requested it, I agreed.
When I entered the wedding venue, the bride and groom were standing near the stage. They both looked beautiful—elegant, radiant, like a perfect match. I quietly found a seat and sat down, just watching them from a distance. I had no plans to talk to anyone, just observe and pass the time peacefully.
A little while later, my mom handed me a small gift box—it was a gold ring, packed nicely—and asked me to go and give it to the couple. So, I got up and slowly made my way toward the stage.
Just then, a man approached me and handed over a flower bouquet. “Please hold this,” he said quickly and rushed off into the crowd.
Now here’s where my introvert brain switched on.
Most people might have waited a bit, looked around, and eventually placed the bouquet somewhere nearby. But not me. As I mentioned earlier—when someone gives me a task, even without clear instructions, I take full responsibility for it. That bouquet, handed to me without much thought, now felt like a duty.
Even after handing over the gold ring, I held onto the bouquet tightly. I kept looking around, scanning the crowd, waiting for that man to return. The wedding continued, people moved on, but I stayed seated—holding the bouquet—wondering where he went and when he’d come back.
The event came to an end. Most guests had already left. Only a few close family members remained.
And then, finally, the man returned. He looked surprised and said, “Oh! You still have it? I just gave that to you in the chaos—I didn’t expect you to wait!”
I told him, “Since you handed it to me, I felt I should return it to you properly.”
He laughed and said, “That bouquet was actually meant for the bride and groom. I was caught up in the crowd and just passed it to you for a moment.”
I smiled awkwardly and nodded. I didn’t say much after that. I just handed over the bouquet, quietly gave the gold ring to the couple, and stepped away from the noise.
As I left the venue, I kept thinking: Why do I take small things so seriously? Why can’t I let go of little gestures the way others do?
Maybe that’s just how introverts are. We give more meaning to moments that others might ignore. And honestly… I don’t think that’s a bad thing.
After the Event: My Recovery Zone
After the wedding was over, I returned home. And as you might expect from someone who’s a true introvert—I needed some time alone.
Attending social functions takes a lot out of me. Even if everything goes well, even if people are kind, it still drains my energy. I think many introverts can relate to this: once we’re back from a big event, all we want is a little solitude.
So, I quietly went to my room and just sat there for a while. No noise, no people, no tasks—just me and silence. I stayed there for a long time, doing nothing in particular. Eventually, I started to feel better, like I could breathe again. That space, that calm—it’s what helps me reset.
Later, my mom came into the room and smiled. She said, “You didn’t even want to go to that wedding. But look at you—you stayed there for so long! You must have actually enjoyed it.”
I laughed and told her the whole story—how someone handed me a bouquet, how I held onto it like it was my responsibility, and how I waited until the very end to return it.
She burst out laughing too.
That’s how it is sometimes. I may not want to be in social situations, but when I do go, I often end up getting deeply involved in the smallest, quietest ways. That’s just the introvert way, I guess.
Does Introversion Run in the Family?
After hearing my story, my mom smiled and said, “You know, you’re just like your uncle.”
That got me thinking—maybe introversion runs in the family?
Yes, friends… the more I observe, the more I notice this. Traits like introversion often seem to pass down through generations. Within our extended family itself, I’ve seen many people who share this quiet, thoughtful nature. One of my close friends is also a strong introvert, and surprisingly, some members of his family behave in the same way too.
It made me wonder: Could introversion be something that’s inherited?
Maybe it’s not just personality—maybe it’s part of our family roots.
Introverts often process information more deeply than extroverts. According to Verywell Mind, introverts are energized by solitude and tend to focus inward.
Let’s Talk in the Comments
Now I’d love to hear from you.
1. Are you someone who gives extra importance to small things?
2. If you’re an introvert, have you noticed anyone else in your family with a similar personality?
I’ll be reading your replies — and who knows, maybe your story will help me understand myself even better.
In the next episode, I’ll share more moments from my daily life — and take you deeper into the quiet mind of an introvert.
Until then, thank you for reading.
And if you haven’t read Episode 1, you can find it here:
👉 Introvert Life Story – Episode 1: Real Moments from a Quiet Mind
See you soon in Episode 3!
